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It's always good to register
in a couple of places to give your guests a variety of gifts from
which to choose, and to allow you both to register for items you
like.
Your fiancée may want
to be involved in selection of household items like coffee makers,
cutting boards and knives, and also may want to register for tools
or lawn and garden items at Lowe's, Home Depot or other home centers.
You may need some things from the home centers, too!

Keep these simple tips in mind while
registering.
- Pick retailers who provide web access to
the registry so out-of-town guests can still shop from your registry.
Make sure the registry tracks gifts purchased (this will cut down
on the number of duplicate items). See what kind of return policy
they have in case you get duplicate items. Stores usually allow
you to exchange for credit or for other merchandise.
- Select gifts in a variety of price ranges to allow
your guest to have numerous spending options. Don't worry about
having a long list or multiple registries. Your guests will appreciate
the variety.
- Think about the kinds of items you need for each
room, and even for the yard.
- Base your selection on your interests and hobbies,
and think out of the box! If you don't need kitchen items, then
maybe you need things for the deck or grill. You may need cookbooks,
spices, wine racks, music CDs for entertaining, rakes, garden
gloves, beach towels or sports equipment. The possibilities are
endless!
- Think carefully about your selections. Don't register
to fine china if you are the casual type and will never use it
- pick out something else instead. If you do register for China,
pick something with lasting appeal. Your China will be around
for a long time!
- Go room by room. Do you need everything for the
kitchen? A few key pieces? Upgrades to your existing pots and
pans? Think before you register. Make a list of "must-have"
items before you even go to register. This
will help you get organized.
- Go ahead and write thank you
notes for gifts as you receive them
but don't mail them until
after the wedding. You have three months after the wedding to
write all of your thank you notes.
- Don't ever put registry information in or on your
wedding invitation! Your wedding shower hostess may note it on
her invitations or your family and friends may spread the news,
but don't put it with the wedding invitation. Not only would that
be tacky, but it presumes that guests will bring you gifts.

Some on-line registries provide helpful articles
on merging male and female design tastes and tips on what you need
to know about selecting household items like lines. Check out Target's
ClubWedd site for some great information.
Most stores will maintain your registry for up to
a year following the wedding. This allows guests to purchase gifts
after the wedding date and allows friends and family to continue
to buy from the registry for birthdays, holidays and other special
occasions.
You can even register for your honeymoon. Several web sites allow
the bride and groom to register for a particular honeymoon, and
guests credit their honeymoon account with monetary gifts to offset
the cost. Even if your entire honeymoon is not covered, this registry
will reduce the cost of your getaway.
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